THE GATHERING
The first meeting of people in the language industry who are ready to learn, build and lead differently

22-25th June | 10am-12pm UK | ZOOM | FREE to attend
Conversations, not speeches & contributors, not experts
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You are not alone in this.
Maybe you have been underpaid for work that requires extraordinary skill, emotional intelligence, and years of training.
Or you have absorbed your students' anxiety, shame, and identity struggles without being compensated or even acknowledged for it.
You have been told to be grateful for a job you love, as if love is supposed to be enough.
Or perhaps you have watched native speakers with no pedagogical training walk into opportunities that your qualifications could not unlock.
You have invested in course after course, qualification after qualification, because the industry told you that more information would finally move the needle.
You have had opinions about what is broken and softened them, qualified them, kept them careful enough to not quite say the thing.
Or maybe you've even have built something real and still felt invisible.
The truth is... you have been working at the intersection of patriarchy, colonialism, and capitalism without anyone naming it as such. And you have been doing all of this largely alone, in staff rooms and private messages and quietly worded LinkedIn posts, wondering if you are the only one who sees it this clearly.
You are not. And this is the room where we finally say it together.
The Gathering is four days where women from across the language industry finally say what they have been thinking alone for years. And in doing so, everything shifts.
You will leave knowing:

Four days with four threads of conversations.
One truth that runs through them all.
The Gathering is structured around the themes that matter most to women in this industry. Each day focuses on a different dimension of what it means to work in languages as a woman. Each day features women from across the industry speaking honestly about what they have seen, what they have learned and what they believe needs to change.
🌬️ AIR | Monday 22nd June
What needs to be said that nobody is saying
Conversations about native speakerism and who actually bears the burden of language learning. Why AI is not the enemy but a tool we need to use wisely. What it actually means to think in another language versus translate into it. Why the voices in podcasting and media are so narrow and what that costs the profession. Why we cannot let our words and our narratives be shaped by forces outside ourselves. And many more.
The topics discussed will include:
Christina Buznea The hierarchy no one questions: why non-native teachers are still treated as second choice
Lizzie Hug Thinking, not speed: what happens when we stop rushing learners to perform
Dominika Nozkiewicz Power play in the language industry: how our rights are violated in plain sight
Štěpánka Nováková AI as ally: why the human touch is about to become the most valuable thing we have
Deepika Vasudevan We are not okay: what research reveals about the reality of freelancing in ELT
Miriam Kalweit Language learned and lived: a holistic approach through retreats in nature
Catherine Angus Whose English are we hearing? The dominance of standard Englishes and male voices in ELT (video contribution)
What you will take away: Clarity on the systemic issues that have been making you feel inadequate. Permission to have opinions about what is broken. A framework for thinking about the future of languages beyond the narrow definitions the industry has given you.
🌊 WATER | Tuesday 23rd June
Creativity, emotion, and intuition as the most powerful forces in language work
Conversations about what it means to teach, lead, and build from genuine feeling rather than mechanical delivery. Why creativity is not a soft add-on to language education but the core of how humans actually learn. What intuitive teaching looks like when you finally trust it. How emotional intelligence is not a weakness in this profession but the whole skill and why the industry has spent decades pretending otherwise. What it means to lead a language business or a classroom from your full self rather than a performance of expertise.
The topics discussed will include:
Rebecca van Raamsdonk What's really holding learners back: loyalty, identity, and the invisible forces beneath the language
Becca Ellis The emotional weather of teaching: two perspectives and a tool to stay sane
Jennifer Murray Writing is political and personal: why our writing unlocks more than words
Kate Bogar Micro feminism in the classroom: the small acts that shift the culture
Anne Lacey Teaching as enabling: creativity, intuition, and letting learners wander into fluency
Eliška Kryslová The moment I stopped asking for permission: what self-trust actually looks like when you're building
What you will take away: Permission to trust your instincts as a teacher, entrepreneur, and leader without needing a framework to justify them. Recognition that the intuitive, relational, feeling parts of you are not liabilities to manage but assets to lead with. And the beginning of a new relationship with your own creative intelligence, one that the industry tried to educate out of you and that this room will help you reclaim.
🌱 EARTH | Wednesday 24th June
What you have been carrying and what becomes possible when you put it down
Conversations about the cost of this work in your body and your nervous system. What it means to climb to the top and decide it is not for you. How to build a sustainable career instead of a performative one. The difference between ambition that comes from fear and ambition that comes from desire. What wellness and balance actually look like in a profession that was never designed for them.
The topics discussed will include:
Miglė Ignatavičienė From the top of the ladder to walking away: choosing what kind of teacher you don't want to be
Lara Statham Wellbeing is not a workshop: mindfulness as a lived practice for teachers who are done with lip service
Ana Jereb Teaching and learning are not a performance: why real growth is slow, messy and worth protecting
Gabriella Kovács Stories of dismissal: the coping mechanisms and dilemmas we don't talk about
Elfin Waters Building a business with a chronic illness: success beyond the mould
Closing practice with Alena Konecna (60 minutes) Dance with the Four Elements: a guided meditation in movement, embodying Air, Water, Earth, and Fire
What you will take away: A clear understanding of what burnout actually is and why rest alone will not fix it. Permission to leave things behind that are not serving you. A framework for building from your actual capacity instead of your aspirational capacity. Practical strategies for protecting your energy without sacrificing your impact.
🔥 FIRE | Thursday 25th June
Building as a woman in an industry that was never designed with you in mind
Conversations about entrepreneurship, ambition, and the money wound. Why non-native English speakers bring something the industry has systematically undervalued. How to charge what your work is actually worth without it being tied to your sense of self. What it means to be visible and take up space without performing. How to build something that reflects your values instead of copying everyone else's blueprint. How not to shrink your ambition.
The topics discussed will include:
Nina Hanáková Slow and steady built everything: 22 years of relational, human-centred entrepreneurship
Abigail Fulbrook Building a matriarchal business: why we need community, not commodity
Rachael Roberts The identity shift: what changes when you finally see yourself as a business owner
Lisa Wood From textbook to human: 30 years of unlearning and a more holistic way forward
Ashley Shoemaker The courage to be seen building: sharing the journey of creating something new
What you will take away: Clarity on why you have been undercharging and what needs to shift internally for that to change. Permission to build differently. Understanding of your own value that is not dependent on external validation. A vision of what becomes possible when you stop playing someone else's game and stop playing small.
After The Gathering comes HOME🏡
The Gathering is the beginning. Four days of honest conversation that names what is broken and opens up what is possible. But it does not end there.
During the event, the doors open to the HOME of Language is A Woman, a permanent community membership and movement for women across the language industry. This is where the conversation continues. Where you belong. Where you build with other women who understand exactly what you are trying to do and why it matters.
This event was made for you if...
You are a woman working anywhere in the language industry: as a teacher, translator, coach, academic, entrepreneur or anything else this industry has asked you to be.
You have opinions about what is broken in this profession and you have been softening them for long enough.
You are exhausted by the narrative that the solution is always more: more qualifications, more content, more strategy, more hustle.
You suspect that the real change will not come from individuals getting better at playing a broken game but from women who know each other and build together.
You are ready to be in a room where the anger is welcome, the whole self is invited and the conversation is finally honest.
You are ready to stop carrying this alone.

MEET YOUR HOSTESS
I am Ola Kowalska, and I have been in the language industry for eighteen years. I have taught, trained, managed, directed, and coached. I have seen this industry from every angle. And what I have seen has made me angry for a very long time.
The language industry is predominantly female. It is held together by women doing emotional, relational, invisible work that no institution has ever properly valued. Women who became therapists in their classrooms without training. Women who built entire schools on emotional intelligence and were never credited for it. Women who tried to build businesses in an industry that taught them their work was not worth much. I was one of them. And I am done pretending that individual solutions are enough.
The Gathering is the first live manifestation of a movement I am building called Language is a Woman and a celebration of the launch of Home - a membership community for women across the language industry who are done being quiet about what they see. I cannot wait to see you in it.
In case you're wondering...
Is this only for women?
The Gathering centres the voices and experiences of women in the language industry. All are welcome to attend and listen. The contributing voices in the event are women.
Is this really free?
Absolutely, 100% free.
The option to join the membership community will be paid but there won't be any pressure to do so.
Is this only for English language teachers?
Not at all. The conversations here are relevant to anyone working in any part of the language industry. English teaching is where many systemic issues are most visible, but these themes: identity, sustainability, creativity, ambition, collective action, cross every language and every role.
What happens after The Gathering?
The Gathering is the beginning of Language is a Woman a movement for women in the language industry and a celebration of the launch of HOME - a community membership for them. Founding member details and early access will be shared during and after the event for Gathering attendees.
Will there be recordings?
Yes. Recordings will be available to all registered attendees within 48 hours of each day's session and available to watch for 7-10 days after the event is over and then moved to live inside the membership community platform.
I still have questions.
No worries! Send us and email at hello@olakowalska.com and we'll be happy to help!
You are already enough.
The industry just forgot to tell you.
Stop carrying what was never yours to carry alone. Grab your free ticket to The Gathering and join us for the beginning of something that will change the shape of this industry.
This is where it begins. Four days that change everything. Then we come home together.
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